Ballroom Dancing is a partner dance, so everyone has to do their job to make it work perfectly. If someone doesn't pull their own weight, it can completely destroy the experience for either one or both partners.
Because of this, I thought I would write a small list of important things to focus on while partnering.
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It is the man's responsibility to lead the lady properly and let her know what figure he wants to do next, but it is the lady's job to follow him and give him the frame and responsiveness he needs to bring her places effectively. Don't make the man bring you places ladies, he is only there to tell you where to go, and not to make you do it. Making the leader drag you is not only uncomfortable but inelegant. Learn the figures ladies! It will serve you very well in the long run.
On the flip side guys, don't drag your partners around. They are people, not objects, and they deserve to be treated with respect. Try to understand how other people respond to your motions, and try your very best to accommodate their range of motion. Very often I will see leaders asking their partners to meet unrealistic goals. Understand your partner's limits, and adjust accordingly.
Both the man and lady must hold their own body weight. If there is any leaning, dragging, or pulling, there is definitely something wrong. Work on holding your own arms up without a partner if you have this problem. Far too often I will dance with someone, and they think my arms are an armrest, causing my arms to be exhausted after dancing with them for a short period.
Also, when something goes wrong while dancing, your first reaction should not be to blame your partner. If anything, you should analyze yourself first and see if there is anything you can do to make life easier for your partner. If you are completely sure it wasn't just you, gently bring up the subject and try to resolve the issue with your partner. More often than not, issues are caused by both partners. Remember: Ballroom is a joint effort; it isn't all about you!
Ballroom is all about effective vocal communication and responding to physical cues. Without communication skills, you will have a difficult time of partnering. Try your best to develop good communication skills alongside your partner, and your dancing should thrive!
Thanks for reading! I hope some of these tips help! If you want to take lessons, feel free to contact me!
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